simple way of putting things here:
how do you think she'd react if she went down on you and you never "returned the favor" and went down on her?
my guess is she'd be STEAMED and your "relationship" wouldn't be a long one.
when women bitch about having to swallow - again - pose them this question:
how would you feel if i orally pleased you and let your "fluids" run down your leg - or all over the place - and didn't lick them up?
once again - she'd be PISSED at you if you orally pleased her and didn't "clean her up"
as tom leykis likes to say:
DUMP THAT BITCH!